Rabbit and Monkey Compatibility

“One of you is being careful. The other one thinks that is the funniest thing here.”

Rabbit and Monkey make an open ground in the Chinese zodiac, scoring 58 out of 100. That is the tie between the two signs themselves, before anything else about either person is taken into account.

The Reading · Open Ground

Rabbit and Monkey have no fixed tie in the branch cycle: no inherited alliance, and no inherited quarrel.

Rabbit and Monkey have no tie in the cycle and two incompatible senses of humour. Monkey cleared the weeds, poled the raft and enjoyed the whole crossing, and its instinct is to tease whatever takes itself seriously. Rabbit takes a great deal seriously and does not say so. So Monkey needles, lightly and without malice, and Rabbit smiles and files it, and Monkey has no idea that anything has happened at all. Neither of you is behaving badly and there is nothing structurally hostile here. What there is instead is a persistent misreading, in which one of you thinks the pair of you are playing and the other is quietly counting.

What works

Monkey brings a life and an inventiveness into a Rabbit's careful world that Rabbit would never have arranged, and Rabbit genuinely enjoys it when it is not the target. Rabbit in return offers Monkey a calm, well-run home and an audience with actual taste, which Monkey values more than it lets on. Socially you are a good pair: Monkey is entertaining and Rabbit smooths over whoever Monkey has offended.

Where it snags

Rabbit will not tell Monkey when something has landed badly, and Monkey requires telling, because Monkey genuinely cannot see it. So it happens again, and again, and Rabbit's warmth withdraws by degrees while Monkey continues to believe everything is fine. Monkey's unreliability is the other half: promises made lightly and dropped lightly, which to a Rabbit are not light at all. It ends without a row, and Monkey never quite works out why.

In the controlling cycle metal checks wood, so Monkey tends to be the brake on Rabbit. Useful in small doses, exhausting as a daily arrangement.

One yang, one yin: one of you moves first and the other reads the room, which is the oldest working arrangement there is.

Rabbit and Monkey in the Ancient Zodiac

An animal year is half of a reading. Which of the twelve Ancient Zodiac signs each of these two actually carries depends on the season they were born in, and the pairing below is where the reading gets specific.